About me

Deciding to divorce is one of the hardest decisions a person can face.

In my heart, I knew it was necessary long before I found the courage to act. The path was costly, emotionally draining, and at times, overwhelmingly lonely. I was blindsided by what I learned along the way—terms like coercive control, financial abuse, and gaslighting were foreign to me at first, but painfully familiar once I understood their meaning. That constant, eggshell-walking dread I had lived with for years, it wasn’t just “high conflict”—it was abuse.

My situation was made more complex by the fact that my children were preteens and teens at the time—intuitive, bright, and incredibly resilient. I wanted so badly to shield them from emotional harm. But I came to realize that staying was the harm.

✨ I had to break the cycle.

Divorce is a marathon, not a sprint—and doing the inner work is not optional, it’s essential. But here's the truth: coaching changed everything for me. It became the turning point when I stopped just surviving and started rebuilding. Coaching gave me clarity when everything felt chaotic, a roadmap when the path forward was unclear, and most importantly, a sense of agency I hadn’t felt in years.

💫 With the right support, I stepped into alignment and started creating a life filled with meaning, peace, and purpose.

Today, my kids are thriving—healthy, happy, and grounded. And I am living proof that healing is possible.

That’s why I do this work. Through KJSD Coaching, I am committed to transforming the way we experience divorce—one client at a time—from the inside out. I want to raise awareness about hidden abuse and help others discover that there is light on the other side.

It is possible to reclaim your power. It is possible to heal.

And it is possible to find beauty in starting over.

🕊️ I would be honored to walk beside you as you navigate this sacred, life-changing transition into your new beginning.

I'm proud to share that I am now a part of The Divorce Coalition, a united front aiming to "Break the Silence. Break the Cycle." 

Our mission is to bring understanding, healing, and resilience to the forefront, ending the cycle of abuse one survivor at a time. We're here to bridge the gap between silence and strength. 

Through education and awareness, we aim to enlighten legal experts and uplift survivors, ensuring safer homes for all.  

Follow @DivorceCoalitionPage on social media and learn more at  divorcecoalition.com.  

Let's come together, break the silence, and champion a brighter future!   #divorcecoalitioni#BreakTheSilencel#BreakTheCycle